Although spontaneous sex scenes look extremely alluring in the movies or in books, real life is a tad bit practical. But that doesn’t mean you should stick to a sex timetable! Let’s understand what exactly are the pros and cons of planned and unplanned sex and what’s really better for your relationship.
Planning sex can actually be super arousing and motivation for a great sex session. But whipping out a calendar or a clock to fix a time and date for sex seems odd. But there are actually pros to planned sex! If you have a scheduled plan set, you can dress sexy, get props ready and just, send the kids to the movies or a friend’s house for a few hours, shave your legs and, in general, be prepared for a good time. A romantic date, a soothing playlist, scented candles etc can help elevate the sexy mood to the maximum level.
It’s a turn on for sure! Its fun, unexpected and is bound to end up in mind-blowing sex. Spontaneous sex is easier for couples in the early stages of dating and relationships where other factors don’t play a major role just yet. A con is that you can’t be sex ready all the time. Different work lives, distance, and other factors can affect your schedule thus causing friction among your relationship. Another con is most definitely how it isn’t necessary that both of you are in the mood for sex at the same time. But at the end of the day, spontaneous sex can be bold, sensuous and extremely arousing.
Planned or impromptu sex is bound to be a fun activity. It all depends on how well you know your partner and their interests and preferences. Both are perfect options based on your relationship with your partner. Every couple can and should have the best of both worlds – scheduled and spontaneous sex to keep the fire alive in their relationship.