If you ever have to experience the unfortunate incident of being cheated on, it will no doubt make you feel bad and re-evaluate your self-worth. However, you can deal with such a situation in a very rational way and avoid getting emotionally damaged.
You are allowed to get angry at him, so allow yourself to vent out your anger. Tell him exactly what’s on your mind and how much his actions hurt you. Don’t bottle up anything because it would only start playing out in your head in the future.
Let him explain
Now that you have expressed your displeasure, allow him to redeem himself and his actions. Why did he do it? With how many people? How often? Communication is very important between the two of you. Get him to confess all his infidelities and listen to them with a calm composure.
Ask him what his true intentions are
You would have to discuss the future of your relationship and it would have to be right in that moment. Is it a one-time mistake or has he been doing it too often behind your back? If it was a single time and he’s very remorseful, consider giving him a second chance.
The only way to move on is by forgiving. However, don’t forget that he was still unfaithful to you and broke your trust. If you need a break, distance yourself from him on good terms. It will give you both time to think the entire situation through.
Don’t seek revenge
Sure, he broke your heart. But, seeking revenge isn’t a good way to go. It would feel good to see him in pain for what he did to you but it would only last for a short while. Don’t worry, karma will always come back for him!
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