Has it been a long time since your last sexual encounter? Have your friends started worrying about your aloneness (note here, NOT loneliness)? Have they started advising (and maybe complaining) to you to get laid? Do you often get sex dreams and have no time to do something about them? Then, my dear, woman, it is high-time to know that you are going through a sex dry phase called sex-drought and you need to get out of it. Here’s how…
The first step to get out of the phase of sex drought is accepting that you are in one. There are various signs you give out through your behaviour and thinking patterns (which do change as per life-situations) that happen because of sexual deprivation. Sexual deprivation may not seem harmless, but it does give a blow to your self-confidence and self-esteem when ignored for a long time. You must accept this, especially when a close friend points it out to you.
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Sit Back And Analyse
When you accept that you are facing a sex drought, DO NOT start worrying! Relax. Take a deep breath and analyse. Analyse your own patterns – what you like and what you do not like. You can even maintain small notes in your diary. This will help you know your expectations of and from the future partner, and also what kind of relationship are you ready for – casual, friends-with-benefits, commitment, etc.
Think, Feel And Look Sexy
To come out of your cocoon you must do it do it in the right way. When you want to achieve something, you must start with thinking on the appropriate track. Clothes may define you, but your thinking and the way you feel will help you keep yourself on the right track. Wear outfits that accentuate your curves; carry them with a poise of your own. This is an absolutely foolproof formula to achieve what you aim for.
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Explore Your Choices And Chances
The main reason that throws you in this sex drought phase is because you start believing that being alone (not lonely) is comforting, and you start creating a comfort cocoon around you. GET OUT of it! Go out – go clubbing, crazy house parties and social events, travel around (maybe solo), join a gym, etc. Look around – there are many fishes in the pond, you will definitely catch an eye of one or two suitable hot dudes. Explore your choices and chances – get his number, go out on a date, see whether he is what you expect of and give it a chance. *Wink*
Stop Overthinking ‘What If’s
Even if it works or it does not, NEVER overthink; this is the best thing you can do to yourself. It is true that thinking of getting ‘back in the game’ will make you think ‘what if I have lost the touch?’, ‘what if he doesn’t turn out to be the way he seems to be…?’, ‘what if I fall in love?’, ‘what if HE falls in love…?’, etc… the list will go on. But overthinking will definitely fry your brain! Don’t worry. Cut down the ‘what if’s and go for ‘so, what if’s. Just like – ‘so, what if he doesn’t turn out to be the way he seems to be?’ Well, the answer is right there, isn’t it? ‘There are many fishes in the pond…’
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