Ever had an intense, unexpected completely inappropriate sex dream? Don’t worry, we won’t judge you! Sex dreams are quite common and everyone is bound to have one once in their life. They could be because of many factors and unconscious thoughts that pop out in your dreams. It doesn’t necessarily mean you want to follow with all of them but some part of your mind is looking for different outcomes. Sex dreams are usually brushed off as weird imaginations but they have underlying meanings. Here are some of the popular sex dreams and what they actually mean.
Sex with Ex
Dreaming of having sex with your ex is the basic if not the most common dream anyone can have. It doesn’t always mean you have any feelings left for your ex but it could. These sex-sex dreams can also mean that you have unresolved sexual tension with him/ her which you both haven’t admitted and discussed yet. It could also be because that you feel that your current relationship could end up getting ruined just like it did with your sex.
Sex With Your Boss / Superior
Sex dreams with your boss or superiors is a clear indication that you are looking for nurturing and love. You like to be submissive and need someone to dominate you in bed. It could be rough sex or a really intimate sweet sex dream. It also means you need to find control in your life but you are being controlled by other people who have control at work (boss). Co-workers also come into this dream where you have an underlying sexual tension or connection with them. It’s most likely that you like certain qualities of them and thus perceives them as sexy.
Sex with Your Sibling / Friend’s Lover
This is a complete no-no and hence the biggest forbidden desire. Having sex with your sibling’s leftovers or current lovers is a major problem. Maybe they have been sweet to you or helped you out in need. Your mind has probably mistaken their kindness into sexual tension. Having sex with your sibling’s BF/GF is the worst crime possible and you know it too. If this got out, it would affect your relationship with your sibling, their lovers, your family and well everyone around you.
Sex with Same Gender (When you’re straight)
Gay or lesbian sex until two weeks back was forbidden in our country, but who says you can’t go wild in your dreams? Seeing yourself having sex with someone of the same gender can mean you’re struggling with your sexual identity and are ready to explore your options. You’re worried about societal image and hence holding back from being true to yourself in real life. Same gender sex dreams also reflect how you’d wanted to be treated if you aren’t enjoying your opposite gender lover as much as you expected.
Watching others having sex
Watching other having sex in your dream can be quite weird and surprising. It could be someone you know or even celebrities. These dreams mean you are being left out of a major news. And internally you don’t like the fact that you have to sit on the sidelines. It can also mean that you’re watching other people enjoy life (seeing that sex is seen as always a pleasure) and you’re stuck in your life.
Sex With Strangers
Another surprising dream is having sex with a stranger or maybe people back from your college days. They are hazy, fast and uncoordinated dreams that leave you confused. These dreams focus on who this stranger is, how you know them if you do and why you are having sex with them (how did they win you over or lure you in). Knowing these answers will help identify why your brain wants to have sex with random strangers you might have passed on the streets 10 months ago.