Sexting is actually an art. There is no right or wrong texting, you just need to know your partner first and use appropriate techniques to turn him on. The appropriate choices of words and timing will make you seem pleasantly overpowering and him to beg for more. Here are 5 simple pointers to keep in mind while pulling of the art of sexting with ace, and to ensure that you are playing cards right.
Take It Slow, Patience Is The Key
Not knowing what to talk when will definitely lead you to nowhere, especially when you are thinking of working your magic on him. Sit back, relax. This will not only give your time and mental space to think about your next move… er… your next words, but also help you know whether he is on the same page or no.
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Cut The Lame Crap And Demand
Lame ‘what’s up’ or ‘how you doing’ following a casual ‘hi’ or ‘hey’ definitely does not give the right start to a steamy sexting session. Don’t ask, demand. Use ‘Tell me what you doing’ instead of ‘What are you doing?’ It will make a whole lot of difference.
Smartness Is A Major Turn On
No, it is not about being a Ms. Know-It-All. It is about choosing the appropriate words for the given situation. There are three factors of smart sexting. 1. A right choice and timing of your words puts a lot of impact in virtual conversation, let alone a sex-talk. 2. Indirect but vivid indicative interest is what you must try.
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Tease Him Like You Were Born For It
Create a small virtual situation – make him imagine it. Imagination is very important when you want to effectively tease him. Teasing will not only give you the upper-hand but also make him anticipate for more. You can even play a guess-game with him; for example, ‘guess what am I wearing…?’. Surely, he will not be done with just this one sexting session.
Talk Dirty But Indirectly
Dirty talking is not rocket science but a good one will heat things up and the bad one will give a ‘what the hell‘ kind of situation. Indirect dirty talk is the safest way to tread through a steamy sexting. For example, ‘Gosh, it has got so hot! Hold on, let me take my clothes off…’