Comfort means swaddling yourself in a blanket while it is raining torrentially outside; comfort is falling asleep in your mother’s lap without a care of the world, comfort is vomiting out all your fears and inhibitions to your friend and comfort is being comfortable in your own skin. We do not mean to generalize the idea of comfort as we are sure you have your own definition of the word but below we have collected a few signs of you being completely comfortable with your loved one. Hear me out love birds and let us know if you agree.
The first and foremost essential item in a relationship is to earn trust. Placement of your trust in him and your relationship is a sign of comfort. Knowing each other in and out without reassurance expected from both ends is a level of maturity that the both of you have reached in your courtship. Filtered thoughts and opinions no longer have space between you and your lover as you trust him with all your heart and can confide in him without thinking twice.
Keeping in mind the limits of every individual’s privacy, the basic act of opening up in front of your partner; lying naked in front of each other with your unadulterated thoughts will help each other grow. You don’t think twice before sharing a word, afraid of offending him. Don’t fret, he will not because he knows you enough and respects your opinions.
Go To Person
Received a promotion? Attained enlightenment? Who is the first person that pops up in your head? Is it him? Then there’s you are answer. In our happiest moments and the worst days of our life we tend to go to a person we find extremely sagacious. This is so because of the level of comfort you have reached with the latter. Sharing all the high and low points in your life has to go through him before anyone else.
Transit Away From Small Talk
You can heave a sigh of relief now. A slow and steady shift from the small talks that bore the both of you to something more intimate and personal is gaining laid-back attitude. Sharing of goals and aspirations, dreams that you plan on achieving before mortality hits you etc. are topics you can ponder on with your partner. If you have already crossed this, trust me you are in great sync with each other.
Open To Each Other’s Flaws
Woke up like that? Exposed the actual you without any façade? Want to vent out your period problems? This particular level of comfort when you do not give an ear to the setbacks of your partner or their no make-up face or even their disgusting habits is the ultimatum. Feelings of embarrassment, inferiority, under confidence and animosity of that sort will be brushed aside. All that matters is their presence in each other’s lives and zilch discomfort.