5 Fingering Struggles And How to Solve Them

5 Fingering Struggles And How to Solve Them

Fingering is certainly underrated and if often thought to be as nothing more than a short stop for you and your partner to get around the bases. Well, it can be a main attraction if done right! Well if you see hands are the most versatile sex toy you’ll ever find. So just thing about the number of things your partner could do to you using his hands.

Also read: 5 Sex Tips That Even Sexperts Use

Certainly there are struggles too if not done properly! Here are 5 common struggles that we women face at time and as well a solution to them. Read on to know how you can make it seem like heaven while you avoid the common mistakes.

1. Your partner’s hands aren’t vagina ready

Vagina is a sensitive ecosystem, so you got to be careful with what you stick around. Yes your partners’ hands as well. So see to it that your partner’s fingers have smoothed out nails or else you could end up having a bitter experience. You can as well ask your partner to regularly moisturise his hands so that they don’t hurt you down there.

2. You are not wet enough

This is probably the most common thing to happen while he is trying to seduce you. Well it’s not like you aren’t in the mood, but we truly don’t know what’s going on in our body. So try using a little lube when he wants to finger you. Lube is perhaps the best way to make fingering feel even better.

3. Your partner is diving in too quickly

Nothing feels great even done too quickly. If your partners tends to jack hammer his finger in and out as soon as you are out of your clothes, ask him to slow down. Things like this are meant to be enjoyed and not just finish them off ASAP. Let him take his time, warm you up and not rush you!

Also read: 5 Tips For Having Incredible Phone Sex

4. Your partner’s touch is rough

At times your partner might be tempted to manhandle you vagina. Mostly during vaginal fingering, people generally want either direct stimulation of the front wall of the vagina or a sensation of fullness, which involves deeper strokes in a more linear movement. So just ask him to do so and not explore like he is exploring some caves.

5. You are not sure how to guide your partner

If you have a sensitive clitoris or even if you don’t have one it is recommended showing your partner the level of pressure that you enjoy. You can take your partner’s hand and use one of your fingertips to touch the sensitive skin on the inside of their wrist and can say something like, ‘I want you to touch me this gently’ You can even hold their fingers and stroke yourself with them, so that they can see exactly what pressure and patterns you love.

Also read: Best Lines For Guys Who Refuse To Wear Condoms

RELATED ARTICLES

How To Make Your First Night Sexy