That moment when a man takes the first step towards sex, there are many thoughts that run through his mind just like the female species. Some of them are serious some funny but mostly they are just myths. You tend to collect information from the internet or from friends who have experienced sex. Regardless if you’ve had sex or not, everyone is aware of these myths associated with it. Here are 5 sex myths that every man secretly believes to be true.
Myth: You NEED To Be Erect Longer
Fact: It’s impossible for a man to stay erect for a long time. Most boys and teens end up watching porn before even having sex. They watch it to learn new positions and sex moves. Since that’s created, they tend to believe that men are required to be erect for long periods of time such as 30-40 minutes. It’s almost impossible to do in real life with as much as stamina. At best if you can manage to stay erect longer than 3-5 minutes then good for you!
Myth: Foreplay is not Necessary for Sex
Fact: It’s 2018! Wake up and start getting aware of sex and foreplay. Foreplay is very much needed in sex for both you and your lover. Foreplay in any form benefits your sexual drive and increases your sexual mood. Foreplay in sex is important to create the mood and some sexual tension. From kissing, touching, edging and light BDSM, different forms of foreplay is actually effective in helping you and your partner achieve the maximum pleasure.
Myth: You NEED to Master Your First Time
Fact: Having sex for the first time can be quite stressful for some people. This could dampen the mood, make you lose your erection or orgasm too soon. The pressure of performing amazingly well in bed can give you performance anxiety and mess up. But that’s okay! Everybody is different and experiences sex differently. So if you can’t enjoy sex in the same way then just find another way instead. You’ll master the techniques of sex slowly and steadily over time.
Myth: The Size IS VERY Important
Having a big or small penis doesn’t really matter in sex. There are several factors such as the width, girth and the size of your partner’s vagina that comes into consideration. Studies show that sex with a big or small penis does not make a difference since there are other ways to reach pleasure. People with a micropenis, where they have a penis smaller than 3 inches also tend to enjoy sex in the right positions and aids. You can always try several different sex positions that will help you maximize pleasure with whatever size you have.
Myth: Two Condoms Are Safer
Fact: Two condoms will not help any more than one condom. Instead by using two you might actually tear them both while inside her and get into trouble. Stick to one condom only whenever you want to avoid unwanted pregnancy and other sexually transmitted diseases.