You are just looking at the surface level of this situation. You need to look beyond and deeper and find its core. If you are tensed emotionally, understand what is it in you that is causing this situation. The problem is always inside, never outside. Once you understand this pattern, you will see everything falling in place. Do not do too many things at one time. Go ahead sorting things out one by one. Heal your relationship with your mother. Also, those are expecting to be mothers, take care of your diet.